Thursday 18 August 2011

The Good, the Bad, and the Interesting

We do not have the distance to truly summarize our experiences in India.  Nonetheless, it feels like we've been reflecting non-stop the last few days, and we have three more top ten lists that will hopefully encourage continued discussions when we get home.

High Points
Honorable Mentions: Sameer, Kochi/Hyderabad, figuring out transportation in Chennai
  • Allan using techniques that we had taught in our Psychological First Aid module.
  • Being recognized by a worker at Sai Balaji Bhavan, a restaurant near Madras Christian College.
  • Taking a risk and taking a ride to Spice Cinema with a friendly stranger.
  • The traditional Hindu greeting and dancing presented by MCCSS.
  • Meals: family-style at Al-Arabi, Delhi; dinner with Megan and Molly, Bangalore; homemade prawn, Mamallapuram; Sheila's traditional Keralan meals, Ambalamoola; dinner with Prince, Princy and Abby, Chennai; Arca Nova barricuda with Michael, Kochi; goat head with Sid, Hyderabad; and ice cream, everywhere.
  • Goofiness and hilarity in Mysore
  • First looks: Karamuli, the first village we visited in Nilgiris-Wynaad; Taj Mahal; Cape statue and temple at Kanniyakumari; and Mathoor Hanging Bridge, Tamil Nadu. 
  • Getting Jefrin to fall asleep (the first and second times)
  • Chennai Rainbow Pride Parade
  • Wayanad Trip with Razlyn and Whitney: overnight trains, NWTWS mobile outreach vehicle, monsoon weather, jackfruit (see the dedicated post)
India Fails
  • Pollution/Environmental Care/Sanitation/Smoking in restaurants
  • Anarchical traffic/line etiquette
  • Welfare of beggars, the disabled, and animals
  • Public Education standards
  • Cinema experience at the theater and on TV
  • Government Corruption
  • Double standard between sexes/recognition of sexual minorities
  • White preference
  • Objectification of white women tourists
  • American cuisine
Cultural Moments
  • 10 (June and July) days without A/C
  • Cop hitting a pickpocket with his shoe
  • Being confronted by an Aravani on the train
  • Being regularly asked to produce exact change (and the hassles that follow failure to do so).
  • Caroline's rickshaw fight in Pondicherry (see dedicated post)
  • Effects of speaking Tamil - surprise, delight (with knuckle cracking), tears
  • Wearing sarees to MCC Campus School
  • Bathrooms - squat toilets and bucket showers
  • Haggling
  • Cultural insights from teaching - Indian English vs. American English, practicing self-care in India, "Excuse me, miss" before entering a room, thanni (water) hand-signal, tattle-taleing and Christianized children's songs. 

Delhi to Denver: The Final Saga

In seven hours we will be landing in Denver.  Presently, we are enduring our layover at JFK airport in New York.  In the last thirty-two hours we have surmounted some not insignificant and unexpected detours.  But let's start with two days ago when we were in Agra...

Our journey to Agra began before dawn on Tuesday, August 16.  We boarded the fancy-shmancy Shatobdi Express train - A/C, morning tea, breakfast, and only a two-hour ride. After two months in India we've become pretty comfortable dealnig with pushy rickshaw wallahs, but when we arrived we had to figure out what to do with a seemingly nice one.  We hired him for the day.

Sameer, said rickshaw wallah, was a gem.  He showed us sites we would otherwise have missed, including  a riverside view of the Taj Mahal, the "Baby Taj", and an alley-way restaurant that only those "in the know" could find. He also took us to jewelry and marble demonstrations.  He even helped Aimee haggle for a special gift at one of the shops.  At no point were we concerned about Sameer's intentions. However, we wanted desperately to know the intentions of the passenger seated  with his machine gun in front of us on the train ride back to Delhi. Though they remain a mystery, we made it back to Delhi incident-free, only to be confronted with a group of protestors marching in support of Anna Hazare, an anti-corruption leader who was arrested on Tuesday. Perhaps it was time to leave Delhi.

And leave Delhi we did, but our flight was fifteen minutes late. Ergo, when we arrived in Mumbai we learned quickly that we had missed the very important flight to JFK. In the words of Sally Wall, one last "personal f***ing growth experience." We had to exercise both firmness and patience to finally find the sympathetic Duty Manager who arranged our flight to Newark, New Jersey and transportation to JFK from there.  He even let us in to the First Class Maharaja Lounge while we waited. Though it was 1:30 a.m. and not 8:00 p.m. when we finally departed, we were on our way home. 

Sunday 14 August 2011

Top Ten Reasons Why We Like Delhi So Far

(For clarification: We recently finished our summer field placements in the big city of Chennai and flew to the bigger city of Delhi to spend our last few days in India.)

Honorable Mention: Ajay Guest House - selected by the brilliant Ms. Caroline, this guest house couldn't be much better located for the many things we are doing in Delhi, and it even puts us close to the New Delhi Railway Station for our day trip to Agra.  It's clean, colorful, air conditioned (usually), and there's hot water for the showers you always need.  What's more, there's a ground floor bakery and a rooftop restaurant that are open 24/7 and will bring you food through room service for no extra charge.

10. The Delhi Metro (Allan, you were right!)  The metro is clean, air-conditioned, efficient and cheap!  It's the latest in a long list of transportation means we've used in India.

9. Our guest house forgot to send a car to the airport, but that meant we got into the city for Rs. 250 rather than Rs. 900...never mind that our driver was reckless and his horn was pathetically dying from overuse.

8. Everywhere, but especially at Jama Masjid, the largest mosque in India, dozens of people (usually young guys and kids with cellphones) have been taking our pictures more or less obviously.  So we took some pleasure in starting to take pictures of people taking pictures of us.

7. After a rather excessive detour, we re-energized with food new to our Indian palate: Dum Aloo & an ice cream milkshake.  The dum aloo was a sweet tomato and onion curry with cottage-cheese-and grape-stuffed potatoes.  The milkshake was "new" because India usually understands a milkshake to be made with milk...they have a point, but with ice cream is best.

6. We saw monkeys in Wayanad, where they seemed to belong, but on a major thoroughfare in New Delhi, they were sort of startling.  Especially when Aimee knelt down to get a picture and they charged her.

5. We weren't supposed to walk down Bazaar Chitli Qabar Marg and we're not sure how we ended up there.  But at last, here was the chest-to-back, shoulder-to-shoulder, bustling alley-posing-as-a-road, packed with bicycle rickshaws, scooters, vendors, fruit carts, trash, drying laundry, and street food aromas.

4. Foreigners are always charged more at national sites than nationals, to the tune of Rs. 300 vs. Rs. 20 at the National Museum.  But when we flashed our international student IDs, we got in for Rs. 1.  Boo ya!

3. We're taught not to accept rides from strangers, but when the alternative is rickshaw-wallahs fleecing you because you're a tourist, they might just be your best bet.  Kids, don't try this at home.

2. We took a shot on a restaurant not in our guide book and ended up with a family-style feast made especially for us at Al-Arabi on Main Bazar Rd.  Falafel, babaganouj, greek salad, hummus, marinated steak and dry-roasted chicken...we could not recommend it more highly.

1.  The number one reason we like Delhi so far is that the "room service" knocking on our door turned out to be Molly Pike and Megan Rafferty!  Indian reunions strike again!   

Monday 8 August 2011

Around South India in Eight Days

Who: Aimee, Caroline, Razlyn Abdul Rahim and Whitney Anderson
Where: Approx. 2525 km; Tamil Nadu (Chennai, Ambalamoola, Nagercoil, Kanniyakumari, Tirunelveli), Kerala (Kozhikode, Kalpetta, Sultan Bathery, Padmanabapuram Palace), and Karnataka (Mysore, Bangalore)
When: 8 days; July 30-August 8, 2011
Why: Because Lonely Planet needs new writers

Price for train tickets: $52
Price for cheapest meal: Rs. 13 (26 cents American) for idly
Seeing Wild Elephants: Priceless

Highlights 
Traveling - Seeing India by bus and by train are worthwhile activities unto themselves.  There is no better way to see kilometers of countryside and snapshots of daily life that you'd miss by air.  There's more opportunity for relationship making; cutely, like the pajama-clad boy with his trucks and cars, or more imposingly, like the aravani asking for money.  When the trains travel by night, they make excellent and cheap sleeping accommodations.  Minus the middle-aged men who snore - sometimes they snore in unison; sometimes they snore in a round; sometimes its a symphony in which the apnea-suffering pig is the featured soloist.  

Buses have their own collection of sounds - horn honking for passing, for cows, for pedestrians, and for fun; music videos with high-pitched, infantile voices (seriously, the gods are portrayed by kids), the same default Nokia ring for every text and call, and incessant, throat-clearing hacking and spitting.  

In Wynaad, we enjoyed the one-lane, monsoon-swept roads in jeeps and in the mobile outreach vehicle to reach beautiful tea-covered mountains and remote tribal villages.

We used autorickshaws when absolutely necessary, but our favorite way to travel was to walk - to walk through elephants' footprints, up muddy mountain paths, down vendor-lined sidestreets, barefoot through palaces, the beach and our host family's dining room.  Sometimes we walked with a purpose; sometimes we walked to find a quiet place.  Though our trip was planned, the in-between traveling allowed for unexpected and rewarding moments.

Wayanad - It was thrilling to be in an area where nature dominated.  Though this statement includes leeches on the muddy ground, it also included monkeys and wild elephants!  Every inch of land was covered in bamboo, tea, coffee, green chili, eggplant, rice, tapioca, banana, butterfruit (avocado), peppercorn, guava, coconut and jack fruit.  Jack fruit were just newly coming into season, and after mentioning idly that we hadn't tried them, suddenly a local man was up the tree and throwing us two of the massive fruits.



Standing on the roadway, we enjoyed the challenge of plucking the fruit-covered seeds from the stringy pulp.  Though not the prettiest of fruits, their flavor and texture mixed banana and pineapple.  Even with seven of us, eating just one half of the jack fruit was a feat.

Mysore - At the perfect middle of our trip, we had a collective spaz attack.  Perhaps it was in reaction to our well-located but thoroughly disgusting hotel (thanks Lonely Planet).  Maybe it was due to the shoe-snapping epidemic that orphaned Caroline and Whitney's flipflops.  But maybe we just wanted an excuse to see Harry Potter.  With the help of the entire wait staff at Parklane Hotel, see it we did.  However, Caroline and Aimee might find it in Delhi once more because the projection could not have been screwier.  But we made some friends from the Netherlands to make up for it.  

In the morning, we tried to behave for Mysore Palace, but when people kept asking for pictures with us, we kind of lost it again.  Caroline made the ultimatum "only if you make silly faces" to the next group of guys looking for a photo op.

Kanyakumari - On the overnight train between Bangalore and Kanyakumari, I (Aimee) found out that Seth Dunn, a friend from my undergraduate, had died in a terribly sad accident.  Word came by the groundswell of social support circulating through the dispersed Bethel community through Facebook, and though connected virtually, I felt suddenly alone in my sadness...for a moment.  Then Michael, my husband, appeared with expert timing for a much appreciated online chat.  I was given instant and generous support from Whitney, Caroline and Razlyn, together and each in their turn.

I enjoyed my time immensely in Kanyakumari, but the effect of this news is not avoidable.  I could not have anticipated how Seth's death would alter moments in Kanyakumari, mostly because we never anticipate such sad things, but also because of the foreignness of my social and physical environment.  I found that being on the coast where the Arabian Sea, Indian Ocean and Bay of Bengal converge in visible current collisions provided beautiful images of continuity and universal connection.  Sitting in Tsunami Park provided a contemplative spot for thoughts about loss.  Quiet was more appealing than the noise brought by the large tourist crowds, and I appreciated my companions offering time for me to find that on small, out of the way, overlooks and beaches.  On one such beach, I etched Seth's name in the sand, letting it get swept away by the water.

These actions were for me as much as him, I know; he probably would have enjoyed the guys running around with the puffer fish more than I had patience for.  I'll work on laughing more for him in the future, because that's the most memorable thing about him.  For all of those still grieving, my thoughts are with you too.

Day Tour - Near the end of the trip, we found ourselves with an extra day to organize, and though we'd woken up at 5:00 a.m. to see the sunrise, we wanted to make the most of it.  So we booked a tour of four sites: Suchindram Temple, Padmanabapuram Palace, Mathoor Hanging Bridge, and waterfalls.

Padmanabapuram Palace, though in Tamil Nadu, is considered Kerala territory.  We enjoyed the palace for its intricate carving and indigenous structure and the way the light played through windows and against the dark wood.  There were so many passages and corridors that made for many fun pictures. The view from Mathoor Hanging Bridge is breathtaking, both for its height and for the Eden-like quality of the turquoise river pointing to mountains on one side and into a lush, emerald valleys on the other.  The waterfalls we visited seemed to double as a mass shower for anyone who came to visit.  They had an outrageous camera charge, so Caroline snuck a few illegal pictures in the cover of the crowds.



Epilogue - We have felt like we've had the opportunity to make a lot of our time in India, this trip being a prime example.  Prince Solomon, a social work at MCC, helped a lot in its arrangements, but we did a fair amount of leg work ourselves.

Our time in Bangalore, for instance, was short - only about three hours between our arrival from Mysore to our departure for Nagercoil.  But look who we managed to find for dinner in those short three hours!


Carpe Dium!